feat: support resource limits on the build container

Adds a `docker-args-process-build` trigger to the resource plugin so
limits set via `dokku resource:limit --process-type build APP` are
applied during the build phase. Only `build.limit.*` properties are
read - defaults do not inherit, since builds typically need more memory
than runtime and a leaked tiny default would cause confusing OOM
failures. Reservations are never applied at build time. Allowed flags
are filtered per builder: herokuish gets cpu, memory, memory-swap, and
nvidia-gpu; dockerfile gets memory and memory-swap; pack, nixpacks,
railpack, lambda, and null emit nothing because their underlying CLIs
do not accept docker run resource flags. The dockerfile builder
whitelists the new memory flags and corrects pre-existing typos where
`--ssh` mapped to `--platform` and `--ulimit` mapped to `--tag`.

plugins/resource/.gitignore

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@
 /install
 /post-*
 /report
+/docker-args-process-build
 /docker-args-process-deploy
 /docker-args-process-run
 /resource-get-property